As long as you are not looking for clear advice or decision making, 4) When we love, we love with every part of our heart, we are absolutely ready to drop anything and everything for you. RELATED: What An Aquarius Really Thinks About You, Based On Your Zodiac Sign. They exhibit intense melancholy with paranoia, and their own thoughts become scary to them. I know first hand I have a love:hate for Libra people. Wow! Not a single libra I can truly trust. All libras say that hate being embarassed; so much that they are willing to betray someone or talk shit about someone else in public to distract everyone's attention from their flaws or faults. A lot of Librans a prone to having gallstones, kidney and dental problems. She is an extremely toxic person. Like you might know, Libras absolutely hate confrontation. I'm here to work on my imperfections but what I see in comments is just hate?!?!?! Libras create a conflict between two acquaintances who not normally have any conflict by Libra telling each person the other "said" something negative about them, when in fact, it never happened. Creating injustice and spreading unfairness tip the balance of the scales in which Libras will work tirelessly to set back right. RELATED: What To Do When A Cancer Ignores You. How can two people who are different yet the same say the same thing about me? And I know there's a dark side but I'm not a dark person. It was an extremely difficult task. Well long story longer I could not invited my best friend and family to my own wedding I'm hurt didn't phase her. Samantha Maffucci is an editor for YourTango who has written hundreds of articles about relationships, trending news and entertainment, and astrology. Its not that I love the Libra guy. but when i read this i was like wow. Seriously wtf! I married a Libra male for 6 years I was lucky to get only 1 year of child support out of him. now i am questioning my whole life and the somewhat form of a self image i may have had at one point even more now lol but its okay bc God knows who i truly am and now others will know. This made his Mr Libra 2 VERY determined, possessive, jealous, vindictive and revenge seeking when I didn't do what he wanted. This article was accurate about "some" of my dark traits. I love her like a sister. I eventually had enough of Libra guy. Our home is where we are the most stubborn, the most controlling, unyielding, vengeful selves. Libra women have some beauty about them because they're not trying too hard and keeping things easy. Yes, alot of these opinions are true but thats why they call them opinions, everyone has one. This will likely cause her career or relationships to suffer, as she may express herself in a manner that undermines her message. Because of this, she may start spending time with new people or strengthen relationships with other friends. I'm going to be very honest, I was pretty ruthless with my ex wife, especially in the latter part of our marriage. If you notice that she has isolated herself, then you should take the time to teach yourself about what happens when a Libra woman is sad. My partner and her don't have a friendship. We were staying in a very beautiful hotel and this was Christmas Eve. ( baring in mind her parents live 5 minutes from her home and she's close to them, she alledges to have 2 childhood friends who live near her too.. she didn't turn to them.) They also crave balance, and they can be equally as self-indulgent as they are generous. Our empathic abilities allows us to see inside you and we can pull out the most sensitive things that no one knows and use them as weapons to destroy your very being if we are crossed. We crave beauty and an ethereal, gossamer rythm to the world around us..and the people in our lives.but we never demand anything that those around us are incapable of providing. It will make them seems like all is a playful and innocents relations that they have and its you, the bad guy, who fucks them over). What Libras actually need is just to find a stable ground they can hold onto when times are unsteady, what often becomes their SO or someone else who is very close. If your not a "capricunt" you have the face and attitude for one. Likewise, when Libras initiate a split, they often lead with agreeable, ambiguous language (for instance, Libras would rather "take a break" than "break up"). Absolutely, every sign except for that poison scorp. Sorry, if i have to choose to trust someone, i will choose people born under the signs of Leo,Sagittarius,Aries, Aquarius, Taurus,Scorpio and Cancer. She only wants information to use against them. They're short-tempered and needy and are prone to turning themselves into a martyr if they know it'll help their cause. That gut feeling is what actual makes us feel human, not the thoughts or beliefs we have, because they can often lie and the heart we have, even if it's synthetic or artificial can't. This will help her reach a state of mind that is more stable and tranquil. I didn't thank god my parents were there to snap me out of it. We are easily hurt and scarred. I, am lazy, BUT not because I love doing nothing. I have to say you have gone out of your way to taint this sign more so than they deserve and more so than your other dark side write ups. i am in my 40's and i have went total no contact with her on several times. Is your love language what you give or receive? Transmuting the energy behind the thoughts and words of your ranting into energies of Love and Light is as simple as asking the Universe to do it. My mom is one and i was in love with one. A Libra woman thrives in entertainment, happiness, joy and elegance. im not saying all libras are like this but my mother certainly is. The cat she got for us 1month before she moved in liked me more than her so we got 1 more so they could play together that failed dead cat. and finally: I ADMIT I'm not perfection BUT try hurt my friends? Don't let their "niceness" fool you. Bye bitch see ya never. I was a fool sheltering her from all her accusers but they were actually right all along. Thank God doctors brought me back alive. This can be dangerous for Libra when it comes to relationships, as they tend to put the needs of their partner above their own, especially Libra men. Libra men are so controlling and a manipulative person Im a Scorpio so that didnt last long with me. BUT dont forget the good as long as you stay on their good side theyll spoil you be your shoulder to cry on and alot more. Look: This is a very typical attitude for a Libra man. So maybe he's still a paedophile and that can't be changed. Tell me, what can make you cr Those with this sign have a very bold personality and don't hide their feelings (unless they feel in such a way that the other person would have the upper hand). Often, they can feel hopeless, but they. In person with me he followed me around my campus and was excessively "helpful". theyre usually really calm but i noticed how they cant tolerate stupidity if no ones watching theyll lash out probably useing really hurtful remarks. Who could hate Gandhi? "Aries isn't good at compromise, so they may break up with Libra over this." It's extremely unfair to call Sylvia Browne a fake psychic. My sister is cold, she does not care about people. I really am reevaluating things now for sure!! When Gemini gets depressed, their mind starts to wander and they over-think everything. Libras Are Trusting & Trustworthy Because they're all about trust. True Librans dont like conflict or ugliness. Have. Should she begin to treat you in an inappropriate manner, then take the time to learn about what happens when a Libra woman is hurt. I. So one must learn to defend themselves from harmful emotions. Then he would get mad insanely mad when ignored. When she reacts in an inappropriate manner, it is likely that she will push people away from her. (2) Really? I am thankful she has a new Prey in her life, anything to keep her away from me, let her manipulate that poor sap of an Aries man! We are extremely patient.but not always forgiving..it is best not to cross a Libra..unless you want your soul torn to the corners of the universe. As an aquarius, I usually like some time for peace and space, but she keeps getting in my business and always knows how to aggravate me. I strongly dislike negativity and conflict. Reason why they play games and betray the people closest to them. He'll keep a lid on his feelings. Cancer is often emotional, needy, and will even cry after insignificant events, even if they see how silly they were acting after the fact. i was a good kid. Libras are all about relationships and balance and will go at any lengths to acheive this whether its making people feel sorry for them, misusing others for their own gain, exhibiting superficial emotions to have codependent relationships. My best advice for anybody is know thyself it is OK to not care or like people and not be friendly. drew new lines in 1930. She balances that by verbally skewering and humiliating people. We don't use emotions to figure things out, we don't use tactile sensory to figure things out, it's about all that is mental and the air signs are especially built for this. I'm not saying like "oh I'm offended so I'm just going to pretend that Libra's are perfect and it's everyone else's fault." I, love helping people and animals and LOVE them. Thankyou from the now bitter, cold, and unhopeful libra if unhopeful is a word lol. It is possible that her downcast feelings will develop into anger or rage. Sorry for that. (3) I had the "right" appearance for him to be seen with. I am a bi Leo female and fell for this Libra woman, who I have been friends with for around 2-3 years, and fell for her over a year ago. If you are looking to learn about what happens when each zodiac sign is sad, then take this time to develop your capacity for empathy and compassion, as this will help you support the people who are in your life. We are deeply complex creatures and live in multiple worlds simultaneously.so getting a direct answer out of us will be difficult because we live in so many places at once that an "in the box" answer will never be provided to who and why we are. It is build up frustration, anger and pain, because you once were nice, and understood and accepted ppl by the way they are, but we seem to have to mold, like we aren't good enough Well, I that feel that my negative side is taking over at the moment, don't really enjoy it, I'm not in peace, I cry when I'm alone, think that I just wanna die, it's like I'm out of place . All I wanted was ppl to accept me the way I accept ppl by the way they are, and for example stop wondering if what I say to a 3rd person upsets my partner, etc Maybe, some ppl here commenting on bad libras, we aren't perfect we're humans, and we libras look for balance (apologies for wrong methods to achieve such) , but maybe try to find the reason behind such behaviour and maybe you can help We aren't that stubborn! )are NOT COMPATIBLE? I, might be a good actor to not-so-close people, or to be more accurate, the mirror - to be exact same reflection of themselfs. Libra is a sign ruled by Venus, which means Libras prefer to use logic over emotion. Not be the only reason Im happy. We are not too bulgar to chaos in public. The normally outgoing sign can become isolated, and may binge-eat or become too lethargic to do anything. In order to understand these triggers - today we present - why the signs get sad! Libra's feel and intuit EVERYTHING.so the world can be vastly overwhelming for those Libra's that don't have an earth sign to anchor them in this world. They're good communicators and mediators; they know what words that all the patience and wise people would say, so you would believe them and even sympathise with them. Overall she's just manipulative and controlling, and I doubt all libras are like her. I feel I am always there, I mean daily, to boost her up, just to not have her there when I need her or to even respond to a text in a decent amount of time. Dated a Libra over a year. but they need to recharge in order to keep it up or as i said before they will lash out. This may cause her to re-evaluate the goals and ideologies that she maintains. Libra people are charming and very easy to attract you. Libra women are a lot to handle but sooooo worth it I love their fiestiness and exciting energy. Libras are very good at hiding their emotions. I am a lion. Because of this, they may be more prone to bottling up their feelings or acting passive-aggressive. He was always an atheist person who would always take p**s of me, my sis and my mum when we would go to church and give donations. They can't believe us about her. This might take some time, but once you go to yourself first for consolation and try some introspection, you can learn how to manage your emotions around others and even figure out what makes you feel better in times of stress or sadness, helping you bounce back quicker and better than ever. I do whatever makes my lover happy just to keep the harmony and passion between us. 2.) Are looking for the meaning of life, the chronically lazy and manipulate the environment to work for them. i have never told her. Depends on the day of the month you were born. Get An Accurate Prediction Today, The Best (And Worst) Zodiac Compatibility For Each Sign. I am taurus with a highly aries dominance,and i just want to puke thinking about libras utterly shameful fakeness. Aries does not like anyone to know their weaknesses, so if they feel sad, it often comes across as anger or frustration. He's been nicer to me than when I was younger, but I can't erase my past memories and my feelings are of a great pain still because I can't forgive him at all even tho he's nice and the most helpful person in my family at the moment. And sometimes I feel terrible about myself because I constantly fight my own feeling of wanting him to rotten in hell, because I feel I shouldn't as he's my brother. Don't ignore a Leo or disrespect us for too long! Reading all of these negative, hateful comments about Libras makes me wonder. Do Libras hide their emotions? However I met a libra and she's like me but diffrent. The realest women in the zodiac I love their tell it like it is ways. Scorpios I can handle, I can even handle a Scorpio Moon and an Aries Moon (I am heavily influenced by Pisces!) the least balanced sign. They may share common general characteristics but that's it. I was a bit indecisive in my younger younger years. Or when she brought home a kitten who was kept locked in a bedroom so for 6-12 hours ( usually for a long time )so she wouldnt be bothered because the kitten wanted to play. The best I could figure is why Mr. Libra 2 was so eager to be with me is. Don't assume his distance and distractedness are signs a Libra man is not into you. Do you not see that you are putting energy into pulling people down, which will surely circle back, hurting you and those you love? They hate themselves most times and only thru relarionships do they function on a higher level and learn about themselves. Often people see a completely different picture of us that it actually not how we feel inside. I used to believe a long term childhood freind was my true freind. I eventually had to reject him, "block" him and go "No Contact" with Mr. Libra 2. This was an interesting read. She wrote many books, you should read one of them. I was terrified. We can seem very listlessdifficult to make definitive decisions and standards that are near impossible to reach for those in our livesand the world in general. we just want you to think you've won. Following your star sign kind of feels like a guide into the real you. Don't take this as a sign of weakness or to underestimate use.v.e.r. To pull you in, a libra will start to compliment or encourage you. Buts its a ruse. god if they had only known. Wants two men at one time, expecting both to remain while she decides, but they better not find another woman while the libra is deciding. They're not really comfortable with people they don't know, so they are usually pretty shy at first. We libras are very difficult people for families to get along with. Oh! They are the cause to my misery. As time progresses, a Libra woman may become more ready to respond to people in a sharp or cruel manner. And to think I still stood by her EVEN when I was admitted and discharged till her demented form comes devouring me inside out again!!! So if i find your chatty, im out of here. LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. Negative Librans are worrywarts and being or feeling alone is the most horrible thing they can imagine. As well as the comments below. They seem hyper-vigilant, forcing themselves to "go through the motions," but nothing really impresses them. But the best thing I sickening Libra is that they always find a patsy to do their dirty work, who come out worst in their name but unconsciously. He said she has to always be the center of attention, will continue to create major drama until she gets what she wants. Cancerians are the mommas of the friend group, regardless of gender. Their sadness is one of hopelessness and they're prone to giving into it. Sometimes, they feel emotionless and are unable to understand how and what they should express to their closest ones. Does breastfeeding affect a newborn's brain development? Hero though he was, Gandhi ignored his wife, refused to send his sons to college, and disowned his eldest because he married instead of being chaste. Hehe. They are experts at reading people and can usually tell when someone is not ready to hear what they have to say. People try to tap into that vulnerability and "twist the knife" unless I hide it from them. So to say my ability to maintain connection is fucked is putting it mildly. I don't know about everyone else but i was so stumped at myself this morning i resorted to blaming my sign. It is true she got older and started having difficulties, I think she basically wore herself out. Try to spend plenty of quality time with your Libra because they value one-on-one time and often aren't happy being alone. But this just my super bad experiences with them. He will talk to you for hours about anything. She is the most flaky and fake person i know. Then he stop talking to me. I remember exactly where I have wronged others and I also remember when and how many times I have compensated for those acts of selfishness or rudeness. I found out later they talked on the phone after my wife told me. (1) his sister's name is completely different than mine. We work from the shadows, you'd figure that would be a Scorpio thing being ruled by Pluto, but despite being ruled by Venus, our (hermit) like needs tend to make us more powerful in our endeavors when we are in solitude to let our mental powers loose. Another one I knew years later did the same; hard to believe, but true! I searched under "Star signs related to types of crimes" and got the shocking result: Paedophilies = Librans. They need someone to talk to about their problems, in order to help them navigate life. But that's a 1 way thing. I am able to persuade people that my ideas are theirs and if it fails, it is on them. They are so gracious and generous that friends are shocked when they first see Libra throw a tantrum, or realize that Libra told a lie. Emotional balance is so important to a Libra. I guarantee there was as much yelling in his home as there is in every Libra home. The Libra was seething underneath her shock that I phoned her, that she hadn't got my partner! If you're giving him mixed signals, he's likely to hide his feelings even more. One older female Libra and two younger males Libras. I was shocked at how "fake nice" my Libra college professor (who was also my advisor for a college club) would talk SH*T about other professors, administrators and anyone who seemed to have a "higher position" of authority than her. But he was nice and attentive. Simply with using second person nouns such as "You can," and "You should.". I have a hate on her beacause im jealous of her she has a lot of friends she has much better fugure than me but her personality is full of garbage this the truth. Hello, I'm one of Libras you guys are hating on. His wife and kids. How To Impress Libra Men? Very nice guy. Things that does not warrant attention would end up being scrutinized and judged and harshest of words will be exchanged.its PATHETIC!!! See additional information. Mr. Libra 2 was so sly and subtle that it took me several months to figure out he was an abusive controoling person. When I get angry I yell and scream but if it gets worst I start getting physical and it's scary. Like the diet sodas they love, negative Librans are artificially sweet. Copyright 2023 Astrology Cosmos on the Foodie Pro Theme. If you are intent on finding love, Libran partners have the reputation of being the most charming and easy-going of all the zodiac signs. Please consult your doctor before taking any action. (Of course I'm born in October hahaI happen to be controlling indeed toward those who get closer to me; in the work-social arenaa combination of practicality- choosing your battles- and impracticality - picking battles you can't win, just to make a point, I do that too. i can not even begin to describe the hell she put me through. 04/13Libra I realized that I was obsessed with being in love and finding someone who loves me and takes interest in me, and goes the extra mile for me. RELATED: What Makes Sagittarius Different? I ended up feeling hurt and confused because I saw the signs that said he didnt want to be with me but kept pursuing anyways. When I say Mr. Libra 2 was pursuing me, it was LOVEBOMBING!!! Obviously, each sign deals with sadness differently, which might be why you feel a deeper connection between you and certain people more than with others; when you get into your lowest lows, these people just get what you're feeling, even without words. In fact the reason why i am here is because i just googled the dark side of Libras today morning. Its a painful truth and for those of you who got offended by this article. every sign has a dark side but a libra??? when i say spiritual abuse, she was always in to some different religion even witchcraft at one point. which was when i was very young. He was also court ordered counseling he got out of it too. However, the stuff you put into the Libras mind it stays there. We talked on the work phone but never in person 1997 till 2002 and just to show her the engagement ring and never since. Libra Woman. Because she is dealing with major stresses in her life, it is certain that she will become introspective. But my current partner said the same thing as the last guy that I was bipolar, vindictive, and crazy. In my head and finding out how my mind games are going in my head. Many Librans are flakey, fake and one sign you must immediately set boundaries for or elseheed my warning -. 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